The Party

•     The party is necessary for the development of the little one, it is a link, a surprise, an exchange, a liberation, an adaptation and a recognition of one's abilities and acquisitions.
•     It is art, culture expresses itself through the group. Songs, Dances, Music, Shows, Exhibitions...
•     It has always been an initiation, a transgression, a membership of the group.
•     It is a moment of putting routines on hold that develops sociability.
•     It is indispensable for the maintenance and development of social order.
•     It is the link between the cultural and the social.
•     It is the adaptation of the tradition to the present day.
•     Small or large, all celebrations are good to give and take, for all ages of life, especially at the beginning because it shows how beautiful life is.

Science and awakening of the personality at 5 months

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Acquisitions : at the crossroads of science

• The third approach to our site, after benchmarks and exchanges, is to understand the newborn's acquisitions in order to perceive their schematic organization.
• This in order to favour his adapted acquisitions, to keep away what could inhibit or deviate them. It is therefore becoming necessary to quantify the dynamics of the relational behaviours of the very small, video studies give such quantities of data that it is necessary to develop new computer analysis tools: optical recognition, movement dynamics, eye tracking, voice analysis etc. ... collecting gigantic data that artificial intelligence groups together in various common or variant attitude patterns.

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Notion of psychic loop and object of this site

• Short introduction : During foetal life many exchanges, adapted by the placenta, follow one another between the mother and her foetus, they organize the adaptation for the birth as shown by epigenetics, they participate in the psychic modifications of the mother and the father's behaviours as shown by behavioural neuroscience.
• Birth terror : For the mother it is the loss of the totipotentiality of nesting, her baby is autonomous, he communicates through new channels.  For the newborn it is the gravity of his body that makes him fear collapsing, scattering, dismantling, it is the anguish of abandonment that motivates his calls.
• Succeed the tonic catch : These new multimodal links form psychic loops that are adhesive, projective, interjectives and defensive. The memorization of these exchanges schematizes the autobiographical Proto-self and self, "I'm mommy!" "I'm an addict!" The calls of self-preservation impulse are organized in pictograms that agglomerate in a quantum Co-Psyché that shares and rhythms itself in mother-baby resonance.
• This site wishes to play the role of the third party in the psychic loop : to help the baby, his mother, his father, to get up from the birth by the sharing of reference points and exchanges favouring the resolution of toxic-stress.
• Here is an open list of authors who evoke these notions ; Mélanie Klein, Esther Blick, Martha Harris, Donald Meltzer, Michel Haag, France Tustin, Didier Anzieu, Daniel Stern, Didier Houzel, André Green, Serge Lebovici, Wilfred Bion, Donald Winnicott, Manuel Perez-Sanchez, Sandor Ferenczi, Piera Aulagnier, Bernard Golse, Victor Guerra, Daniel Marcelli, José Bleger, Pierre-Yves Oudeyer.

We're making progress slowly

The progress of the site is slower than expected, because our different European contributors each give their point of view and they sometimes diverge. This diversity enriches everyone's opinions, providing clarifications to postpone everyone's adhesion. This is pure diplomacy. If our little ones knew that, they would probably laugh at us.

So do not hesitate to send us your contributions, they will surely fuel our debates.

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Some topics mentioned and others may be known

We will develop hunger, thirst, sleep, reassurance, communication, care, discovery. In a special chapter we will deal with "motherhood"...

We will address less developed themes such as psychic loops, projective memory, psychic singularity, reward circuits and many others...

Welcome post

Good morning, everyone,

Here we will exchange the topics that build this site.

Your knowledge, your experiences, your discoveries are the goods that come as parents or as professionals.

Our words are taken from the language of children, without negation, without implied meaning, without irony.

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